sensitive

as per your dictionary.com sensitive means:

1. Capable of perceiving with a sense or senses.
2. Susceptible to the attitudes, feelings, or circumstances of others.
3. Quick to take offense; touchy.
4. Easily irritated

one always seems to be thinking of no. 1 and 2 only. though it is true one should be very no. 2, but one should remember that sometimes the other one is no. 3 and 4; as usually only when one is no. 3 or 4, one will say the other person is NOT no. 1 or no. 2. anyway it is also so true that lots of people don’t like those who are NOT no. 1 or 2…. because if you are NOT no.1 or 2, then you’ll hurt those who are easily at no. 3 or 4…. but being no. 3 or 4 is also as bad as being NOT no. 1 or 2. looks like it works both way.

how do one learn to be no. 1 or 2? very difficult. that’s why people without no. 1 or 2, tend to be at the losing end always, while those at no. 3 or 4, people tend to pity them when those without no. 1 or 2 hit at them. and to make matters worst, it isn’t easy to tell what, how will make a person no. 3 or 4, so when a no. 3 or 4 person feel one is NOT being no. 1 or 2, how will the NOT no. 1 or 2 persons knows/judge the no. 3 or 4 persons will feel that way? so who’s blaming who? who’s wrong and who’s right? come to think of it, if the NOT no. 1 or 2 persons knows that the other person is no. 3 or 4, s/he won’t be NOT no. 1 or 2 towards that no. 3 or 4 persons, but will be very no. 1 or 2 to that no. 3 or 4 persons. that’s plain logic, right?

are you confused? good. meant to be that way. who cares if you don’t understand. i had spoken up. i understand myself is enough.